QUESTION:
When my wife is in her hotwife guise she is very submissive. She gets turned on by doing exactly what I want. She is my hotwife because she knows how much it turns me on.
Out of the bedroom she is not submissive and is a bossy teacher!
Is this usual in hotwife couples?
ANSWER:
It is, at least, in my case. My wife has a stressful job that she handles well. I wasn’t aware of her new submissive nature today. When we met years ago, she was very submissive to me, but over time, she gained confidence and began asserting herself as we progressed in the lifestyle. She would pick her men and enjoy them as they would her.
Recently, in the past year, she met an older man whom she developed an attraction for. He was 20 years older than her. I was okay with her seeing him alone as I knew him to be a good guy . We have an agreement for her to play alone; she has to videotape the encounter. Her lover is okay with this, as he appreciates a copy for himself.